Yes, I’ve had these thoughts, too — that we’re really a writing community writing for each other, unless we go outside to draw in readers. I don’t know how I feel about that, since I’ve been looking for a good online writing community and feel welcome and comfortable here.
But I worry, too, that I’m TOO comfortable and I’m not pushing myself enough, satisfied to get even this little attention. That I’m writing for them and not for me.
At any rate, you’ve given much to think about and I don’t find it controversial at all.