Let’s be Honest: Anti-Abortion Doesn’t Make You Pro-Life.

I’ll get right to it: I’m on the side of every woman who chooses abortion as a solution to what she considers a problem in her life. I don’t need to know her story. I don’t need to insert myself in her decision-making. I don’t need to be judge and jury as she goes through the act of aborting a fetus.

I do need to support her decision against those who chant “Abortion is murder” and “Baby killer!” I need to let her know her worth is not any more, any less because her choices about motherhood are different from someone else’s.

I can do this without hesitation, without equivocation, and I do it as a woman who worked hard at conceiving my three children, never once considering abortion as a solution for an unwanted pregnancy. I can do this because it’s not about me. My own life, my own feelings, my own sense of right and wrong, has nothing to do with any woman’s decision to abort.

So let me speak directly to those who throw out that phrase “pro-life”, as if aborting a fetus is the be-all,end-all of life as we know it here on earth. If you insist on inserting yourself into any woman’s life, deciding for her that she must carry a fetus to term, you can’t, in all that’s holy, stop there.

If you force a woman to bear a child she doesn’t want, it should be on you to insure…